10 Tips For Surviving Jet Lag When Traveling With Kids

Last Updated on November 11, 2024 by Leslie Stroud <!– %AUTHOR_NAME% –>

Our five kids have traveled over 30 international flights around the world. Our longest flight was from Auckland to Los Angeles for 14 hours; we understand jet lag well. What’s the best way to deal with it? How can you minimize the adverse side effects of your vacation?

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Jet lag might leave you crummy, but it may also allow you to get a few early mornings or explore later for the first day or two while little bodies adjust. We try to use this to our advantage and enjoy adjusting to a new time zone. 

I’ll share what we’ve found to be a successful and best way to adjust quickly.

What Is Jet Lag, And Why Do We Have To Deal With It?

Our bodies work in cycles and rhythms, many of which are dictated by the light of day and the food we eat. When we move our bodies at hundreds of miles an hour to a new place by plane, our bodies are in shock. Our sleep cycles are abnormal and normal systems are interrupted.

This sleep disruption is temporary until our bodies adjust to the new time zone and the cycles of that location. Jet lag occurs when you change more than two time zones.

Jet lag can be present in headaches, insomnia, or fatigue.

Sleeping on a plane is never fun (except maybe for those lucky folks in first class) and can be impossible. Our oldest daughter experiences great anxiety about sleeping on a plane and rarely does.

Anxiety can be your worst enemy when sleeping on a plane. If you are too nervous or full of anxiety, skip sleeping. Your body may take over at some point, and you’ll pass out into sleep. However, no amount of eye masks, earplugs, sleep aids, or pillows will get you to sleep if you are anxious (trust me, I’ve tried). 

Only over many, many international flights have I been able to get some sleep on flights. I was so nervous and kept stressing about how tired I would be that I could never sleep.

Let me tell you a secret: you don’t have to sleep. Enjoy your movies, books, music, or whatever brings you joy on planes. I love the free movies on long flights and tend to catch up on new releases as we rarely watch anything at home. I also love writing for my blog while on planes, which helps me relax and enjoy the many hours soaring through the sky.

We rarely force our children to sleep on planes at all. Their bodies will tell them when they are tired. We take screens away if they ignore their body’s exhaustion cues (think red, tired eyes, and dark circles while staring at their screen). Within minutes, they usually put themselves to sleep.

If they only sleep 3-4 hours, that’s OK. You know they are tired, but it’s not worth the stress to you or them to force them to sleep.

Tips For Sleeping On Planes With Kids

While we love many travel essentials for flying, especially our inflatable pillows and Seat To Sleep pillows for kids, sleeping on a plane is about more than good products.

As I mentioned above, trying to relax is most important. Having little or no expectations of sleeping on the plane and any sleep that happens will be a bonus. If you are caring for a baby or a toddler, it’s best to expect no sleep. Don’t worry; you can catch up in the following nights.

When we book our tickets, we try to leave the middle seats open in the chance we can have an extra seat. If the center seat is filled, we ask that person to switch to the window or aisle, which they are always happy to do. If you get an extra seat, this will help kids lay down and sleep a bit more.

We love Melatonin and are not afraid to dole it out to the kids. If we want them to sleep and they are exhausted, I give them 2-4 gm, depending on the child’s size, and soon send them a warning that screens go off in 15 minutes. It takes about 15-20 minutes for the Melatonin to kick in, and once we turn off the screen, it’s typically a quick dose into dreamland.

Don’t be afraid of the floor for kids to sleep on. It’s a little gross, and some airlines frown on it, but we often stick at least one kid on the floor to sleep for a long flight. They are tiny and can find it restful. Use a travel blanket like this one or the blankets provided on international flights to make a small bed.

Realize that our bodies have different kinds of sleep. The first 20-90 minutes of sleep are for quick recovery. It is not a restful sleep and is not enough to sustain you for long, but a short nap can reset your brain, mood, and energy. If you take a quick nap on the flight and can’t get back to sleep, that’s OK. Wait for your body to ease you back into sleep when it’s ready.

Flight Direction Matters In Jet Lag

The direction around the globe makes a big difference. If you are headed west, like from Europe to the US, you will arrive the same day and be able to go to sleep when you arrive. It is the easiest route for jet lag. You’ll typically feel the effects of jet lag for 2-3 days.

If you are going east, like from the US to Europe, you’ll be spending your “night” on a plane. You might arrive at 3-4 am in the time zone you left, but it’s now morning at your destination. As difficult as it is, you’ll need to stay awake until a reasonable bedtime (at least 6 pm), so try to get some sleep on the plane. Even 3-4 hours can help. You’ll feel the effects of this jet lag up to 6-9 days after arrival. Yes, you might not even adjust completely before heading home.

If you are going north or south, you are likely staying in your same time zone or within a couple of hours. In this case, treat plane time like you would off the plane. If it’s night, sleep, and if it’s the day, stay awake.

Our Typical Long-Flight Pattern With Kids

Early Morning Flights Going West

If your international flight leaves early in the morning, you will likely go to the airport in the middle of the night. Kids find this exciting and can seem full of energy while struggling to stay awake. Typically, you’ve been up much later doing all the last-minute packing and maybe didn’t even sleep.

We let the kids enjoy the excitement of getting to the plane and try to get them some food (everything is better with a full stomach). Once the plane takes off, we tell them they cannot have screen time until they’ve taken a nap (if we want them to sleep). 

Usually, we will all doze off the first 2-3 hours of the early flight and then stay awake until we reach our destination. We all feel fine, can get food, and then have to get to an earlier bedtime before we crash hard. 

You’ll probably wake up early, maybe even 4-5 am, but we use this to enjoy more of the day! You’ll adjust quickly.

Red-Eye Flight Going East

Flights from the US to Europe are common for us (read about our experience moving to Portugal from the US) and tend to be tricky. You are always flying overnight, or a red-eye flight as they are called, and will need to stay awake when you arrive. 

For these trips, meals are served in the first 2 hours of the flight, and we let the kids stay awake for this. Sleep is very disruptive when the flight attendants are all over, giving out food.

Once the meals are cleared away, I pass out Melatonin (if the kids seem really wired), give them a 15-minute warning that screens are going off and it’s going to be sleep time, and then help them settle. Our kids can sleep as much as 6-9 hours on these flights (toddlers sleep much longer, especially when we use this fantastic inflatable pillow as a bed). When they wake up, and it’s been a minimum of 5 hours, we let them have screen time again.

If they wake up after 2 hours, let’s say, and you want at least 5, be firm that they need to go back to sleep. You don’t care if they stare at the ceiling first for 40 minutes. Stay strong and encourage them to go back to sleep. Don’t give them screen time.

Tips For Dealing With Jet Lag For Kids

Once you’ve arrived and are dealing with jet lag, what’s the best way to handle this with your kids? Here are my 10 tips:

1. Get your eating schedule on the same schedule as your destination. You can do this even before you leave. Surprisingly, your food schedule significantly impacts your sleep schedule. Get your meal times on what is typical in your destination as soon as possible.
2. DO NOT nap in your first 2-3 days in your destination unless you have a baby or toddler that typically sleeps during the day. You will prolong the jet lag immensely if you nap. Push through to a regular bedtime, even if you are arriving. If your baby or toddler naps, do not let them sleep longer than they would at home.
3. If your kids can sleep on planes, schedule flights in the afternoon or evening. And then, stay up when you arrive until a reasonable bedtime.
4. Try adjusting your bedtime before your trip to the time zone. You can move rest time in 30-minute increments and help the adjustment go easier once you arrive.
5. If children wake up in the middle of the night after arrival, tell them to go back to sleep. Do not turn on electronics or screens. Give them some Melatonin and keep it quiet and dark. Melatonin is a lifesaver when it comes to jet lag! It’s a natural supplement our brain produces to regulate sleep that doesn’t stay in your system long.
6. Try to get to sleep immediately if arriving at night. Everyone will be tired from travel, and getting to bed immediately can help. Consider a hotel close to the airport for the first night.
7. Consider living in your normal time zone during vacation. If you are only changing a few hours or days, you might want to stick to your current schedule, which might mean late mornings and nights but a lesser adjustment overall.
8. Stay hydrated. This is especially difficult when flying for an extended period. The flight leaves everyone parched, which can compound jet lag’s effects. Push liquids as much as possible. I like to finish an entire water bottle (and have the kids do the same) before security, then re-fill at a water station in the airport and try to get another before take-off. This sets you up for success in staying hydrated on your flight. You can also consider a drink with electrolytes.
9. Set yourself up for success on the plane. If it would be helpful to sleep on the plane, wear comfortable clothing, bring pillows like our favorite or this one, pack Melatonin, and try your best to rest during your new “night” on the plane.
10. Go outside! Daylight helps when adjusting to a new time zone. Go for a walk or do an outdoor activity the first day.

Have a safe flight! ✈️

Leslie

Additional Reading

30 Must-Have Tips for Flying With a Toddler

Tips for Flying with a Baby

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