Last updated: . This update corrects current Disney ticket and ride-planning details while keeping earlier park visits as personal memories. Date information added October 28, 2026.

First published July 13, 2022. This article shares Leslie’s family experiences and opinions from trips over several years; park products, prices, schedules, and availability can change.
Imagine spending thousands of dollars to sit in line all day, sometimes in the blazing heat, eating bar-quality food that is overpriced, dealing with kids who are melting down and in tears, with crowds and endless people, and being exhausted from walking 10,000 steps or more.
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Why in the world do people DO THIS? From the outside or someone who isn’t a fan of Disney, this is literally what it looks like: absolute insanity.
Yet we’ve become some of Disney’s most committed fans. Here’s why.
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Today, we want to consider ourselves as some of those true Disney fanatics. We’ve visited all the parks in the world during our world travels. We even lived in Anaheim for a month so we could visit Disneyland nearly daily. We’ve been to Disney World four times in four months. I could keep going, but you get the picture. We spend A LOT OF MONEY on Disney.
This is all coming out of our pocket, people. With our family of seven, I’d be horrified to get an actual number on the amount we’ve spent on Disney.
However, we are relatively new to drinking the Disney kool-aid.

We also didn’t grow up as one of “those families” who visit every year. My parent’s first trip to Disney was last year after we forced them to join us for our VIP Tour. My husband Chris hadn’t been to a Disney park until four years ago!
When my brother and sister-in-law chose Orlando for their honeymoon, Chris and I laughed heartily. Why in the world would you go there when the whole world awaits you?
The bottom line: we are only recent converts to this Disney fan world, and we understand your skepticism

Imagine your first visit, which for us was in 2017 with five young children. We talked little about how expensive it seemed and how little we knew!
We walked in to find line times ridiculously long. Who would wait in line for 60 minutes on vacation? That seems stupid!
We skipped all the big lines and went for anything quick. We honestly didn’t get it.
Our kids were so overstimulated that it made meltdowns inevitable. You are getting up early, walking all day, dealing with crowds, and constantly surrounded by toys, fun, and fantasy.
On top of that, getting food at Disney is confusing at its best. In the pre-Covid world, lines were long for food. Spending $15 for a sub-par hamburger doesn’t seem fun at all.
Getting food also felt like a learning curve. In the pre-Covid world, we found food lines long, and meal planning felt like something you had to do months ahead. When kids are hungry and you are tired, it taxes the best of us.

Eventually, we figured out things. We went to the grocery store and stocked up! Read on my tips for your first Disney visit here.
We also decided to tackle some rides with longer waits. When this article was published in 2022, Lightning Lane and Genie+ were the services I was referring to. Park systems have since changed: see the current Walt Disney World Lightning Lane information and Disneyland Lightning Lane information for current details. What happened when we finally gave in and waited for the 60-minute ride?
Here’s what you won’t expect… you wait forever, wonder what in the h*ck you are doing there, and then you go on a ride.
Wow, that’s so much fun!! I’d even say fantastic (cue cheesy music here). Watching your children’s faces, or your spouse’s, or your friends, and being able to talk after the ride about how amazing it was… this event is the magic.

We’ve been to many theme parks, like Fuji-Q in Japan, DreamWorld in Bangkok, plenty of Six Flags, Universal Studios, and more. If there is a theme park near our travels, I’m booking it into our schedule.
You get a day of thrills and fun for most of them, but you aren’t craving to go back the next day. However, the more time we spend at Disney, the more we want to be there. Why?!
I’ve spent hours pondering this question. What makes it different, honestly? Why can they charge more, have enormous crowds, and still have the most devoted fans?
Here’s what I’ve come up with….

I say it often: Disney is all about the details, and I’m sure each ride takes many years to get onto and off the paper. The level of detail in creating the fantasy around a Disney character or movie will knock your socks off.
It’s all the little touches… the decor of a room, the meticulous detail on the line queue of a ride, the reality of seeing the massive Disney Castle in real life.
Recently, Lucy and I visited Universal Studios to see Harry Potter World. It is, by far, the best part of Universal Studios and the only reason we go. It’s incredible and so enjoyable!
Yet as I waited in the lines for the rides, I tried to imagine what Disney would do with it. Pretty sure they would take the detail up probably 20-50%, and what already amazes you would transport you to an entirely new level. I’d love to see what Disney can do with Harry Potter!

On our VIP Tour, I heard that thousands of Disney employees were laid off when Covid began. What a tragedy.
Disney did really well staffing its parks, hotels, and facilities, in my opinion. Sometimes, you almost wonder if they are overstaffed.

This translates to a few key things:

What is the Disney magic everyone talks about? Are you magically transported into your favorite Disney movie the second you walk into the park? Sadly no… but also kind of yes.
You are immersed immediately into a friendly, beautiful, clean park. As you explore the park, your emotions are stirred as you see your childhood favorites and recent Disney masterpieces, like the Avatar ride in Animal Kingdom at Disney World. Imagine flying a banshee out of the movie! It is like flying and really does take your breath away.
Disney invokes all the senses in the experience. For one example, Disney’s history of Soarin’ describes the scents used to bring its scenes to life.
Rides at Disney will genuinely amaze and awe you. Roller coasters are not only thrilling; they tell a story and delight the senses and imagination. I know it sounds cheesy, but they are indeed magical!

The shows at Disney would be worth a hefty admission price anywhere else. The performing and singing are top-notch and so fun to see. I highly recommend taking a break from the rides, which can be tricky.
We always thought Disney had the best fireworks show ever. Think of your best 4th of July and multiply that by a few factors—that’s how it felt to us! For us, it brought together the music, fireworks, and sometimes projections on the castle. Seeing those shows in different languages at parks around the world was unique, and it is something I miss. Show programs and schedules vary by park and date, so check the official calendar for the visit you are planning.
Remember how you are just as excited for your children to open their gifts on Christmas morning as they are? The same goes for Disney. You can’t wait to see them catch their favorite movies coming to life.
Character meet-and-greets fill up the family meter with fun. Our son, Grant, was obsessed with Winnie the Pooh, and getting the characters in person literally made him cry. He’s a tender little soul.
Our kids have sometimes been grumpy or overstimulated on long park days and wanted all the fun things they saw. We tried to be patient with them. Every child and visit is different.
However, this is somehow similar to all travel, right? Travel days with kids can tax the strongest of parents, but is that what you remember from your Disney vacation? Of course not!

Disney is a business, and it’s good never to forget this.
However, the core item, at least for me, about what makes Disney so unique is the focus on the family. The park is built with families in mind, and I find the most joy with my family.
Spending fun times with your family is just plain enjoyment. It’s kind of like eating a lot of desserts for a few days.. not sustainable long-term, but so fun to do and happy to remember.
For our family, Disney has been a special place to feel closer together, and I like that.
Of course, you can create these special family bonds and memories in many other places. Heading to the park and connecting can bring so much joy, and it’s free!

If you want a theme park to go to together, I’d always recommend Disney. Will your life be less if you never visit? Of course not! We love it, though, and love our memories there.
Xoxo,
Leslie
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